Your Guide to an Unforgettable Wedding Weekend at the John Joseph Inn

Apr 27, 2023

Planning a wedding is an exciting journey filled with countless decisions, and one of the most crucial aspects is crafting the perfect wedding weekend itinerary. A well-structured itinerary ensures that your guests have an unforgettable experience, immersing them in a joyous celebration while making the most of their time with you. To inspire you, we've curated a dreamy wedding weekend itinerary, taking you through a magical journey of love, festivities, and cherished memories at the John Joseph Inn!


Rehearsal Dinner

As anticipation for the big day builds, it's time for an intimate and heartfelt rehearsal dinner. Hosted in our 1852 restored carriage house underneath hand-hewn chestnut beams, this evening allows close friends and family to come together for an evening of celebration and sentiment. Delight your taste buds with organic, local fare or opt for a sophisticated homestyle BBQ under the stars. Heartfelt speeches, toasts, and memorable moments create an atmosphere of warmth and love, preparing everyone for the special day ahead!


Welcome Party

Set the tone for the upcoming festivities by hosting a welcome party for all of your guests who are already in town. This event allows guests to mingle, bond, and share their excitement. The evening features music, a bonfire, and refreshing cocktails, creating a relaxed atmosphere and providing everyone with the perfect opportunity to connect before the big day.


Get ready, glam, go!

The day everyone has been eagerly awaiting has arrived! Begin with a relaxing morning, made completely stress-free by our recommended hair + makeup vendors that come directly to our inn for all of your glam needs. Enjoy a delicious breakfast while receiving glam and soaking in these private moments with your bridal party.


Ceremony

It’s time! Walk down the aisle to the love of your life, surrounded by stunning orchards and manicured gardens, making a breathtaking backdrop for your vows. With a dramatic path leading to the arbor designed to make an entrance, it’s the most magical place to say “I do” and start your lives together!


Cocktail hour

After the heartfelt exchange of vows, transition seamlessly into the cocktail hour, complete with delectable appetizers and signature drinks. This is the perfect time to capture timeless photographs with your loved ones while savoring the euphoria of the day! 


Reception

Immediately following cocktail hour your guests will be led into the English garden ballroom tent, where a sumptuous dinner awaits. Dance the night away under beautiful crystal chandeliers, serenaded by a live band or DJ, and create memories that will last a lifetime!


After Party

The party doesn’t have to stop just yet! After the final songs have been played at the reception, head back to the main inn with your guests to continue the festivities. Start a bonfire, sing karaoke, or reminisce about the evening until the wee hours of the morning, when you’re ready to head up to your room for an excellent evening of rest. 


Farewell Brunch

As the wedding weekend draws to a close, bid farewell to your guests with a delightful brunch. This final gathering is the perfect opportunity to express gratitude, share stories, and reminisce about the incredible moments shared over the past few days. Savor a delicious spread of brunch favorites, accompanied by refreshing beverages and heartfelt conversations.


Crafting an ideal wedding weekend itinerary ensures that your celebration is not just a one-day affair but a memorable weekend for all involved. Incorporating a range of events, from welcome parties and rehearsal dinners, to the main event and farewell brunch, allows your guests to fully immerse themselves in the celebration and forge lifelong memories. We can’t wait to help you create a wedding weekend that reflects your unique love story!


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