6 Ways to Make Your Wedding Unique and Custom

Apr 27, 2023

Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life. It's a celebration of love and commitment between you and your partner. While there are many traditions and trends when it comes to weddings, it's important to remember that your wedding day should be unique to you and your partner. Here are some tips to help you make your wedding day truly your own.


     1. Incorporate personal touches

One of the easiest ways to make your wedding day unique is to incorporate personal touches throughout the day. Think about your favorite hobbies, places you've traveled to, or other special moments in your relationship. For example, if you and your partner love to travel, you could name your tables after your favorite destinations or display photos from your trips.


     2. Write your own vows

While traditional wedding vows are beautiful, writing your own vows is a great way to make your wedding ceremony more personal. Think about what you love most about your partner, your hopes and dreams for your future together, and what your commitment means to you. Writing your own vows can be a beautiful and emotional moment during your ceremony.


    3. Choose non-traditional wedding attire

Wedding attire doesn't have to be traditional! If you and your partner are more casual, consider wearing something that reflects your personal style, such as a colorful suit or a dress that's not white. You could even ask your guests to wear specific colors or styles to create a cohesive look.


    4. Serve creative food and drinks

Food and drinks are an important part of any wedding reception, and they can be a great way to show off your personality! Consider serving your favorite foods, such as pizza, tacos, or burgers, or even a signature cocktail that reflects your personalities. You could also consider having food stations or a dessert bar instead of a traditional sit-down dinner.


    5. Create an alternative guestbook

Instead of a traditional guestbook, consider creating something unique that reflects your personalities. For example, you could have guests sign a globe if you love to travel, or a photo book with pictures of you and your partner throughout your relationship.


   6. Have a sweet send-off moment!

Finally, consider a send-off to end your wedding day. Instead of the traditional rice or confetti, you could have your guests blow bubbles, release lanterns, or even have a sparkler exit. This is a great way to create a memorable moment for you and your guests!


At the John Joseph Inn, we love working with couples to create a day that truly reflects your personalities and your love for each other. Contact us today to chat about your wedding vision!

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