Embarking on Forever: The First Tasks for Newly Engaged Couples

May 16, 2023

Congratulations - you’re engaged! This exciting time is filled with joy, love, and anticipation as you begin to plan your future together. But now you’re wondering: “what comes next? There’s so many things to do, where do I start?”


We’re here to help by outlining some essential tasks to check off the to-do list early on to set a strong foundation for your upcoming marriage as you start your journey towards a lifetime of happiness together!


   01. Celebrate and Share the News

Take some time to celebrate this momentous occasion together! Whether it's a romantic dinner, a weekend getaway, or a simple night at home, make sure to revel in the happiness and excitement of your engagement. Once you've celebrated privately, share the news with your families, close friends, and loved ones. Their joy and support will only enhance this special time in your lives!


   2. Discuss Your Vision for the Future

Now that you're engaged, it's crucial to have open and honest conversations about your vision for the future. Discuss your individual goals, dreams, and aspirations, as well as your shared goals as a couple. Talk about where you see yourselves in five, ten, or twenty years, both personally and as a unit. It's important to align your expectations, values, and ambitions to ensure a strong foundation for your marriage.


   3. Set a Budget and Start Saving

It's important to establish a budget early on to avoid unnecessary stress. Sit down together and determine a realistic budget for your wedding, taking into account your financial situation and priorities. Consider the size, style, and location of your wedding, as well as any other associated costs. 


   4. Begin Wedding Planning

With your budget in mind, it's time to dive into wedding planning! Start by discussing the type of wedding you both envision, such as a traditional ceremony, a destination wedding, or an intimate gathering. Decide on a rough guest list and research potential venues, as that choice informs every other decision you make for your special day! Remember, the key is to enjoy the journey and make decisions together that reflect your unique love story.


Embarking on the journey towards marriage is an exhilarating and transformative experience. Cherish this special time and embrace the adventure that awaits you as you build a lifetime of love, commitment, and happiness!

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